Family & Relationships

Should I have kids?

An honest, judgment-free conversation about a decision you can't easily raise with family — with an experienced professional who helps people think it through.

One-hour session · $120–250

Why reading about it only gets you so far

This is one of the few genuinely irreversible decisions you'll ever make, and the online quizzes reduce it to a checklist that resolves nothing. What you actually need is a frank conversation with someone who works with people facing this question every day — someone who can help you hear what both paths really involve.

Talking to an experienced professional who understands the full weight of this decision surfaces what actually matters to you, in a way no article about the decision ever will.

What a conversation gives you

Who you’d speak with

Real, relevant professional experience — not a generic coach pitch.

Common questions

How do I know if I want children?

There's rarely a clean answer — but talking with an experienced professional who works with people on exactly this question can help surface what actually matters to you. This is not counselling.

Is it normal to be unsure?

Very — many people go back and forth for years. Talking to a professional who works with people navigating this, whichever way they decide, helps more than a checklist.

What do people who chose child-free wish they'd known?

You can ask exactly that of a professional who works closely with people who've made that choice — the kind of candid, informed answer an article can't give.

Is this counselling?

No — it's a professional conversation with someone experienced in this area. If you're feeling distressed, please reach out to a support service such as Lifeline (13 11 14).

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